31 January 2017
I got a text from your mom today . . . with a video of you . . . have I mentioned how much I love today's technology?
When we moved to Spain I guess I didn't exactly understand that we'd be an ocean away from all of our family . . . I don't even think I had any idea what it even meant. Of course, I was 7. We'd always lived some distance from everyone, but Charleston was close enough to Savannah that we could visit with my Grandmother Hahn pretty often. And my Grandmother Cochran and Papa lived in South Carolina too . . . so visits with them were pretty common as well. Moving to Key West made visits to Mom's side of the family more sporadic, but Dad's brothers lived down there, so we grew up with my aunts, uncles, and cousins.
But Spain . . .
Phone calls were pretty expensive. Flights home were not going to be an option (though both of my grandmothers came to visit). We wouldn't see family for 4 years!
Then the first cassette tape arrived!
Grandmother Cochran would put a cassette tape recorder on her dining room table and record conversations of visitors. I don't recall getting particularly emotional about it . . . probably wasn't even that interested to tell the truth . . . but Mom would hang on every word. As an adult now, I understand trying to keep that connection. Just to hear her mom and dad's voices must have offered a level of comfort I can now comprehend. She'd always tell us which voice belonged to whom, but we had friends to play with, so we didn't usually stick around very long . . . the conversations were just people talking anyway.
Of course there were letters too . . .
It would have been pretty cool to have FaceTime back then . . . we would have been able to SEE everyone. I know this technological advancement has changed everything!
Deployed soldiers can see their loved ones back home . . . grandparents get to watch their grandchildren in real time . . . lovers bridge the distance that separates them . . . kids no longer have to wonder when they're going to see dad who's off on that business trip . . . nobody has to miss those big events . . . weddings . . . births . . . everything's just a click away on our computers.
So today . . . even though you're way across town . . . I got to see you roll over for the first time! Might not be the same as being there, but it's pretty dang close!
I wish this type of media had existed when my girls were born. I’ve started many times . . . never continued . . . several diaries over the years. Now I have a grandson on the way . . . maybe this time . . . this is for you Dean Thomas!
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Tuesday, January 31, 2017
Monday, January 30, 2017
Papa's Quiet Wisdom
30 January 2017
My Grandfather Cochran . . . Papa . . . was the most gentle man I've ever met. I don't know what he was like when my mom and her siblings were growing up with him, but from the stories I've heard, it seems he'd always been that way.
While I still have a few memories of him before we left for Spain, the ones that are the most vivid were made after we got back from there . . .
He was a tall man . . . thin . . . skin like leather from years spent in the sun as a farmer . . . his eyes were grey . . . and kind . . . strong yet gentle hands . . . what hair he had left was white and cropped close to his head. I loved him unabashedly. He left before we were up in the morning . . . the land calling him, but he was always back for dinner (that's lunch in case you get confused about that). My grandmother scurried around the kitchen . . . made sure he ate heartily. I was always close by . . . waiting quietly for his invitation to join him in the afternoons. Some days I was left behind, but more often than not, he'd smile and say "Come on child" and my heart would burst with excitement. He rarely came home before the sun set . . . often saying he worked from "Can't to can't" (translation: before the sunrise until after dark).
One of those afternoons, I followed him out the door . . . we'd be plowing in a nearby field . . . one of my favorite things to do with him. It fascinated me to watch those metal discs turn that sun-hardened soil into art . . . rows and rows . . . a pattern ingrained in my head. And this day I got to take my BB gun along! Grandmother packed us some drinks and sandwiches since we'd be gone for a while, and she knew I'd get hungry before dinner.
I got to ride on top of the wheel well of the tractor . . . something OSHA would freak out about today . . . AND give moms a heart attack . . . after all I could have been killed, right?!?! Whatever. Anyway, Papa stopped plowing after a couple of hours so we could take a break, sit in the shade, and enjoy our afternoon snack. I finished up pretty quickly and asked Papa if it would be okay for me to shoot my gun . . . using a nearby fence post as a target. "Sure," he said, "just be careful."
I managed to hit the fence post a few times . . . then I watched as a bird landed and settled on top of it. Thinking nothing of it, I took aim at the little bird . . . and hit it. I have no idea what I thought would happen, but a BB . . . shot from the distance where we sat . . . will not kill a bird . . . I watched in horror as the poor thing hit the ground and started flopping around . . . what I'd eaten threatening to come up!
Papa turned . . . pretty sure I made some sound that made him turn . . . looked at me . . . and my gun . . . stepped of the tractor and walked to where the bird was flailing. I THOUGHT he was going to pick it up so we could take it back home to nurse back to health. He did not. Using the heel of his boot, he crushed the bird into the ground . . . to finish, out of mercy, what I had done . . . and I started to cry.
When he got back to the tractor . . . with no malice in his voice . . . he simply said "We don't shoot what we're not going to eat, and we don't eat songbirds."
We spent the rest of the afternoon plowing in silence . . . my guilt overwhelming . . . a lesson learned.
He never spoke of it again . . . I never pointed that BB gun at another living thing . . . it was a long time before I pointed it at anything.
I was 11 years old.
"The value of life is revealed when it confronts death from close quarters." ~ Apoorev Dubey
My Grandfather Cochran . . . Papa . . . was the most gentle man I've ever met. I don't know what he was like when my mom and her siblings were growing up with him, but from the stories I've heard, it seems he'd always been that way.
While I still have a few memories of him before we left for Spain, the ones that are the most vivid were made after we got back from there . . .
He was a tall man . . . thin . . . skin like leather from years spent in the sun as a farmer . . . his eyes were grey . . . and kind . . . strong yet gentle hands . . . what hair he had left was white and cropped close to his head. I loved him unabashedly. He left before we were up in the morning . . . the land calling him, but he was always back for dinner (that's lunch in case you get confused about that). My grandmother scurried around the kitchen . . . made sure he ate heartily. I was always close by . . . waiting quietly for his invitation to join him in the afternoons. Some days I was left behind, but more often than not, he'd smile and say "Come on child" and my heart would burst with excitement. He rarely came home before the sun set . . . often saying he worked from "Can't to can't" (translation: before the sunrise until after dark).
One of those afternoons, I followed him out the door . . . we'd be plowing in a nearby field . . . one of my favorite things to do with him. It fascinated me to watch those metal discs turn that sun-hardened soil into art . . . rows and rows . . . a pattern ingrained in my head. And this day I got to take my BB gun along! Grandmother packed us some drinks and sandwiches since we'd be gone for a while, and she knew I'd get hungry before dinner.
I got to ride on top of the wheel well of the tractor . . . something OSHA would freak out about today . . . AND give moms a heart attack . . . after all I could have been killed, right?!?! Whatever. Anyway, Papa stopped plowing after a couple of hours so we could take a break, sit in the shade, and enjoy our afternoon snack. I finished up pretty quickly and asked Papa if it would be okay for me to shoot my gun . . . using a nearby fence post as a target. "Sure," he said, "just be careful."
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I don't recall what "brand" tractor he used, but the one we were on that day was very similar to this one |
I managed to hit the fence post a few times . . . then I watched as a bird landed and settled on top of it. Thinking nothing of it, I took aim at the little bird . . . and hit it. I have no idea what I thought would happen, but a BB . . . shot from the distance where we sat . . . will not kill a bird . . . I watched in horror as the poor thing hit the ground and started flopping around . . . what I'd eaten threatening to come up!
Papa turned . . . pretty sure I made some sound that made him turn . . . looked at me . . . and my gun . . . stepped of the tractor and walked to where the bird was flailing. I THOUGHT he was going to pick it up so we could take it back home to nurse back to health. He did not. Using the heel of his boot, he crushed the bird into the ground . . . to finish, out of mercy, what I had done . . . and I started to cry.
When he got back to the tractor . . . with no malice in his voice . . . he simply said "We don't shoot what we're not going to eat, and we don't eat songbirds."
We spent the rest of the afternoon plowing in silence . . . my guilt overwhelming . . . a lesson learned.
He never spoke of it again . . . I never pointed that BB gun at another living thing . . . it was a long time before I pointed it at anything.
I was 11 years old.
"The value of life is revealed when it confronts death from close quarters." ~ Apoorev Dubey
Sunday, January 29, 2017
Great Grumpy Turns 80
29 January 2017
Your Auntie M and I ran out to Dad's yesterday afternoon . . . to celebrate his birthday. He's got this really great neighbor that planned everything out too, so all we had to do was show up . . . not a bad gig if you ask me.
I wish that your Great Grammy could have known the Osborns . . . I think she would have liked Kimberly a lot. They've lived right around the corner for years, but for some reason their paths never crossed. Not sure how it happened, but the boys discovered my dad . . . after we moved Mom to Knoxville. Kimberly and her husband John have 5 boys . . . and for the last 4 years, they've sort of made Dad's house their second home. Two of the boys, Levi and Peter, have helped Dad get some things done around the house, and he, in turn, has helped them with projects for Boy Scouts, their mom . . . it's been kind of a win-win thing for them. Kimberly has also cooked for Dad . . .
Honestly, I don't know what we'd do without them now.
Kimberly baked a cake . . . a burnt sugar cake . . . that Dad requested. She said it was her first attempt, and we all agreed it turned out well. By the time we left today, there was only about a quarter of it left! We had pizza too . . . courtesy of the Osborns!
We were also surprised by my cousin Allen . . . my Uncle John's boy (John is your Grumpy's younger brother). I couldn't tell you the last time I saw him, but it sure was good to reconnect with him. He still looks like he did in childhood . . . a little taller . . . a little greyer . . . still . . .
All of s Hahn cousins have decided to make an effort to get together . . . something we haven't done since we all lived in Key West . . . back in the 60's.
This morning we got up to freshly made cinnamon rolls . . . baked by Kimberly . . . delivered by Isaac, the youngest Osborn boy. Such a cutie pie kid . . . biggest grin I've ever seen . . . eyes filled with light . . . and born storyteller!
Your Great Grammy wasn't there. I wish she had been. I really think she would be pleased that Allen came down . . .. . . and I really think she'd love Kimberly.
"A good neighbor is a priceless treasure." ~ Chinese Proverb
Your Auntie M and I ran out to Dad's yesterday afternoon . . . to celebrate his birthday. He's got this really great neighbor that planned everything out too, so all we had to do was show up . . . not a bad gig if you ask me.
I wish that your Great Grammy could have known the Osborns . . . I think she would have liked Kimberly a lot. They've lived right around the corner for years, but for some reason their paths never crossed. Not sure how it happened, but the boys discovered my dad . . . after we moved Mom to Knoxville. Kimberly and her husband John have 5 boys . . . and for the last 4 years, they've sort of made Dad's house their second home. Two of the boys, Levi and Peter, have helped Dad get some things done around the house, and he, in turn, has helped them with projects for Boy Scouts, their mom . . . it's been kind of a win-win thing for them. Kimberly has also cooked for Dad . . .
Honestly, I don't know what we'd do without them now.
Kimberly baked a cake . . . a burnt sugar cake . . . that Dad requested. She said it was her first attempt, and we all agreed it turned out well. By the time we left today, there was only about a quarter of it left! We had pizza too . . . courtesy of the Osborns!
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Can you tell why we call him Grumpy? |
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And he blew ALL of the candles out! |
We were also surprised by my cousin Allen . . . my Uncle John's boy (John is your Grumpy's younger brother). I couldn't tell you the last time I saw him, but it sure was good to reconnect with him. He still looks like he did in childhood . . . a little taller . . . a little greyer . . . still . . .
All of s Hahn cousins have decided to make an effort to get together . . . something we haven't done since we all lived in Key West . . . back in the 60's.
This morning we got up to freshly made cinnamon rolls . . . baked by Kimberly . . . delivered by Isaac, the youngest Osborn boy. Such a cutie pie kid . . . biggest grin I've ever seen . . . eyes filled with light . . . and born storyteller!
Your Great Grammy wasn't there. I wish she had been. I really think she would be pleased that Allen came down . . .. . . and I really think she'd love Kimberly.
"A good neighbor is a priceless treasure." ~ Chinese Proverb
Saturday, January 28, 2017
Ming Tu (or Two if you ask Auntie M)
28 January 2017
I was reminded of the funniest story . . . concerning a little Pekingese dog was had years ago.
The first dog we ever had was a little poodle type dog, and her name was Lucy. I was little, so I don't remember much about her, but after she died, my sister and I always thought the song "Lucy in the Sky With Diamonds," by Elton John, was written about her . . . you know because all dogs go to heaven!
Our next dog, Chow Ming, was a Pekingese, and he was so cool . . . except when he was left alone at the house. I remember Dad rubbing his poor little nose in his mess every time we came home from somewhere . . . THAT lesson never sunk in for the dog!
We went on vacation once . . . were gone for 30 days . . . poor Chow Ming missed us so much he quit walking. The people we left him with were so worried about him too. Dad, of all people, did some improvised physical therapy with him though, and he did learn to walk again.
When we moved back from Spain, we stayed with my Grandmother Cochran . . . one morning someone let him out to do his business . . . and he was stolen! Poor boy . . . he was old by that time, so I imagine he probably died of a broken heart.
We didn't get our next dog until we moved to Tennessee . . . Ming Tu came into our lives then! When you look back at pictures of Chow Ming, you see an almost "show dog" quality . . . he was beautiful. Chow Ming was, I think, the runt of the litter . . .
I think your Auntie M was the runt as well . . . I look like a monster beside her!
One of the funniest things I remember about this still dog was that he LOVED cheese . . . and I mean L.O.V.E.D it. No matter what he was doing, you could just say "Cheese!" and he'd stop dead in his tracks . . . even if he were running. That's not my whole story, so bear with me for a minute.
We couldn't trust him for a minute . . . when he went outside he'd take off and run, so we got to the point, if he wasn't on a leash, we'd hook him to a small chain that was attached to a tree. Crazy dog would walk around the tree until the chain was wrapped so tight he'd just be stuck. Dad came up with a plan: attach his small chain to a 6 foot piece of logging chain . . . no way Ming Tu could move that! If you've never seen a logging chain, the links are HUGE, and it's heavy!
I'll get that piece of chain weighed 25 or 30 pounds!!
So, we'd put the dog out . . . attached to this huge chain . . . THAT would solve the tree problem AND the running thing, right?!? (And don't worry . . . or call the ASPCA . . . we never left him out there for days on end . . . my sister always had him in her arms . . . he had the luxury of sleeping with us at night too)
Not!
Ming Tu learned that if he pulled and pulled and pulled . . . somehow manage to drag the chain to the sidewalk and then to asphalt . . . then freedom would be his. After all, it doesn't take much energy to drag a chain across asphalt . . . no matter how heavy it was.
Yeah, he was smarter than we gave him credit.
The day he discovered this, we were distraught . . . he'd vanished. We went to look for him, and found him just a house away . . . stuck at the bottom of the hill in the yard . . . because he was in the grass. He looked at us like we'd ruined his day!
From then on, we kept a closer eye on him.
Then one day, right before my eyes, he took off like a shot . . . I ran in to get some cheese and the chase was on! By the time I got back out he'd run straight down our road . . . chain bouncing wildly behind him . . . moving as fast as his little legs would carry him. I gave chase, and as I got closer, I yelled "Cheese!" . . . he came to screeching halt . . . the chain did not . . .
Poor dog . . . let out this horrible yelp when the chain slid past him and pulled his little chain tight around his neck . . . his little body whipping around from the momentum of it all.
Guess he really deserved that piece of cheese after all.
If you're wondering about this breed . . . they originated in China . . . are referred to as Lion Dogs . . . because they resemble the Chinese guardian lions . . . and they're fearless!
I was reminded of the funniest story . . . concerning a little Pekingese dog was had years ago.
The first dog we ever had was a little poodle type dog, and her name was Lucy. I was little, so I don't remember much about her, but after she died, my sister and I always thought the song "Lucy in the Sky With Diamonds," by Elton John, was written about her . . . you know because all dogs go to heaven!
Our next dog, Chow Ming, was a Pekingese, and he was so cool . . . except when he was left alone at the house. I remember Dad rubbing his poor little nose in his mess every time we came home from somewhere . . . THAT lesson never sunk in for the dog!
We went on vacation once . . . were gone for 30 days . . . poor Chow Ming missed us so much he quit walking. The people we left him with were so worried about him too. Dad, of all people, did some improvised physical therapy with him though, and he did learn to walk again.
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Auntie M with Chow Ming |
We didn't get our next dog until we moved to Tennessee . . . Ming Tu came into our lives then! When you look back at pictures of Chow Ming, you see an almost "show dog" quality . . . he was beautiful. Chow Ming was, I think, the runt of the litter . . .
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Me and Auntie M with Ming Tu |
I think your Auntie M was the runt as well . . . I look like a monster beside her!
One of the funniest things I remember about this still dog was that he LOVED cheese . . . and I mean L.O.V.E.D it. No matter what he was doing, you could just say "Cheese!" and he'd stop dead in his tracks . . . even if he were running. That's not my whole story, so bear with me for a minute.
We couldn't trust him for a minute . . . when he went outside he'd take off and run, so we got to the point, if he wasn't on a leash, we'd hook him to a small chain that was attached to a tree. Crazy dog would walk around the tree until the chain was wrapped so tight he'd just be stuck. Dad came up with a plan: attach his small chain to a 6 foot piece of logging chain . . . no way Ming Tu could move that! If you've never seen a logging chain, the links are HUGE, and it's heavy!
I'll get that piece of chain weighed 25 or 30 pounds!!
So, we'd put the dog out . . . attached to this huge chain . . . THAT would solve the tree problem AND the running thing, right?!? (And don't worry . . . or call the ASPCA . . . we never left him out there for days on end . . . my sister always had him in her arms . . . he had the luxury of sleeping with us at night too)
Not!
Ming Tu learned that if he pulled and pulled and pulled . . . somehow manage to drag the chain to the sidewalk and then to asphalt . . . then freedom would be his. After all, it doesn't take much energy to drag a chain across asphalt . . . no matter how heavy it was.
Yeah, he was smarter than we gave him credit.
The day he discovered this, we were distraught . . . he'd vanished. We went to look for him, and found him just a house away . . . stuck at the bottom of the hill in the yard . . . because he was in the grass. He looked at us like we'd ruined his day!
From then on, we kept a closer eye on him.
Then one day, right before my eyes, he took off like a shot . . . I ran in to get some cheese and the chase was on! By the time I got back out he'd run straight down our road . . . chain bouncing wildly behind him . . . moving as fast as his little legs would carry him. I gave chase, and as I got closer, I yelled "Cheese!" . . . he came to screeching halt . . . the chain did not . . .
Poor dog . . . let out this horrible yelp when the chain slid past him and pulled his little chain tight around his neck . . . his little body whipping around from the momentum of it all.
Guess he really deserved that piece of cheese after all.
If you're wondering about this breed . . . they originated in China . . . are referred to as Lion Dogs . . . because they resemble the Chinese guardian lions . . . and they're fearless!
Friday, January 27, 2017
Your Mom . . . It's Her Birthday
27 January 2017
Wouldn't you know it . . . today's your mom's birthday . . . one more year she'll hit the quarter century mark!
Wow, I remember that day well . . . middle of winter . . . IDAHO, duh . . . we'd had huge snowstorms hitting us . . . your grandfather did his best keeping the driveway shoveled so we could get out on a moment's notice. He even had to shovel snow away from the front door it was so high.
Way back when I found out I was pregnant with her, the doctor "predicted" her birthdate as January 27th . . . but that's generally just a date doctors record . . . so you have some idea about when the baby will arrive. Babies, however, arrive in their own time . . . based on all sorts of factors. I've known moms who've delivered in the really early weeks to babies as small as 2-3 pounds . . . to terrified parents . . . because it was just too early! I've known moms who've delivered weeks AFTER the predicted date . . . to parents (well, moms) who were weary from waiting.
This was taken about a week before your mom was born . . . we got even more snow a few nights before she got here |
But your mom . . . I guess she was setting her own precedent . . . arrived on the predicted due date!
Your Great Grammy fell in love at first sight with your mom |
We had a 6 month old Boxer pup waiting at home . . . we'd done our best to prepare her from your mom's arrival . . . but dogs are unpredictable! Gretchen hated your mom . . . she was so jealous it wasn't funny! I'd sit down to feed your mom, and that dog would squat in front of me and empty her bladder of 2 days worth of pee . . . on the carpet . . . right in front of me!!! Some days she would race down the hallway toward us . . . your mom in my arms . . . and she'd run us over!! After a couple of weeks, I'd had it with her . . . was debating on sending her back to my Dad (his dog Roux was Gretchen's mother).
Then something magical happened . . .
. . . a friend of mine came to see your mom . . .
. . . Gretchen let her in the door, but for some reason put herself between my friend and your mom . . .
. . . that was it . . .
. . . your mom belonged to Gretchen!
Gretchen . . . always by her side |
When your mom went to bed at night, she became the sentry by the crib.
When I bathed your mom, it was all I could do to keep Gretchen out of the tub; she appointed herself the lifeguard.
When I fed your mom, she was right beside her waiting to clean up the mess; my favorite vacuum cleaner!
When your mom learned to crawl and found her food bowl, Gretchen sat quietly and allowed her to play in it. Yes, your mom did eat some of it too . . . Gretchen didn't mind that either.
And when your mom finally learned to walk, Gretchen could hardly stand it . . . she was such a Nervous Nelly . . . always getting between your mom and anything else! Gretchen was a quick study in herding . . . which would come in really handy when your Auntie E arrived!
Thursday, January 26, 2017
Banana Seat Bicycles
26 January 2017
Back in the 70's we had the coolest bikes . . .
I really need to start searching diligently for pictures from my childhood . . . there just aren't that many of them around.
Anyway, most kids my age . . . back then . . . had bicycles much like these:
We rode our bikes everywhere! We built ramps . . . so we could do
radical jumps . . . if we could talk the younger kids into lying side by
side . . . in front of our ramps, we could jump over them. Sure there
was danger . . . but we were oblivious . . . and bulletproof! And the
little kids screamed . . . making it all that much more exciting! Of
course, occasionally one of them would sit up to see if a bike was
coming and not get back down quickly enough with generally resulted in
scrapes, bruises . . . blood even. Whichever kid was unfortunate enough
to get hit would usually walk off crying . . . with screams of "You
better not tell!" in a chorus of voices . . . including a big brother or
sister who'd threaten life and limb . . . following him. Most times the
kid would return . . . resigned to the fact that tattle-telling wasn't
worth the wrath . . . reluctant to join the others in the street . . .
poised as flat as possible . . . to watch the bikes fly overhead!
Of course, the bike riders hit the pavement too . . . bloodied knees and elbows became battle wounds! Anyone stupid enough to run home for first aid usually never came back to join the fun . . . we learned early never to admit to wounds because mom's would patch us up and forbid us to return to whatever activity earned us the injury.
Yaya . . . where are you going with this story anyway?
Oh yeah, there was a story!
So, we were in Spain, and my Grandmother Hahn came to visit us one year (both of my grandmothers came to see us . . . an ocean away . . . in another world). We kids were all outside . . . playing in the street . . . our bikes nearby . . . she walked out to check on us.
Now keep in mind . . . my grandmother was in her 70's at the time.
She walked over to where we were and shared that she rode a bike when she was younger. We scoffed a bit . . . NO WAY was my grandmother EVER a little girl . . . she was old! We said so too.
"You can't ride a bike Grandmother . . . you're too old!"
She took that as a challenge! My 70 year old grandmother got on one of our banana seat bikes . . . with the curved handlebars . . . and took off!!! We all chased her down the street . . . cheering and laughing! When she finally stopped and got off, she flashed us a smug smile . . . and headed back to the house. We were AMAZED!!!
My GRANDMOTHER . . . who was older than dirt . . . was 10 again . . . and she rode a bicycle!
Back in the 70's we had the coolest bikes . . .
I really need to start searching diligently for pictures from my childhood . . . there just aren't that many of them around.
Anyway, most kids my age . . . back then . . . had bicycles much like these:
If you didn't have a bicycle with a banana seat . . . those curved
handlebars . . . man . . . you were just not cool enough! Your Auntie M
and I got them for Christmas one year!
We
used clothespins to attach playing cards to our bike frames . . .
letting part of the card hit the spokes of the wheels . . . that way you
made noise when you rode . . .
These things came along later . . . for the kids of your mom's
generation . . . not quite as cool as putting a playing card in your
spokes . . . but whatever!
Of course, the bike riders hit the pavement too . . . bloodied knees and elbows became battle wounds! Anyone stupid enough to run home for first aid usually never came back to join the fun . . . we learned early never to admit to wounds because mom's would patch us up and forbid us to return to whatever activity earned us the injury.
Yaya . . . where are you going with this story anyway?
Oh yeah, there was a story!
So, we were in Spain, and my Grandmother Hahn came to visit us one year (both of my grandmothers came to see us . . . an ocean away . . . in another world). We kids were all outside . . . playing in the street . . . our bikes nearby . . . she walked out to check on us.
Now keep in mind . . . my grandmother was in her 70's at the time.
She walked over to where we were and shared that she rode a bike when she was younger. We scoffed a bit . . . NO WAY was my grandmother EVER a little girl . . . she was old! We said so too.
"You can't ride a bike Grandmother . . . you're too old!"
She took that as a challenge! My 70 year old grandmother got on one of our banana seat bikes . . . with the curved handlebars . . . and took off!!! We all chased her down the street . . . cheering and laughing! When she finally stopped and got off, she flashed us a smug smile . . . and headed back to the house. We were AMAZED!!!
My GRANDMOTHER . . . who was older than dirt . . . was 10 again . . . and she rode a bicycle!
“Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming "Wow! What a Ride!” ~ Hunter S. Thompson, The Proud Highway: Saga of a Desperate Southern Gentleman, 1955-1967
Wednesday, January 25, 2017
The Pirate Mystery Continues
25 January 2017
And again . . . last week . . . more treasure clues came in the mail . . .
I just don't know what to make of this, but it's the coolest gift I've ever received! Makes me yearn to sail the Seven Seas . . . in search of adventure . . . new worlds . . . treasure!!
We could set sail . . . under a full moon . . .
And again . . . last week . . . more treasure clues came in the mail . . .
I just don't know what to make of this, but it's the coolest gift I've ever received! Makes me yearn to sail the Seven Seas . . . in search of adventure . . . new worlds . . . treasure!!
We could set sail . . . under a full moon . . .
“No, no! The adventures first, explanations take such a dreadful time.” - Lewis Carroll, Alice's Adventures in Wonderland & Through the Looking-Glass
Tuesday, January 24, 2017
Candy Land Lessons . . . Candy Coating Removed
24 January 2017
Sometimes I hope the pendulum swings the other way before you’re old enough to understand some things . . . one in particular is the notion that everyone who participates in a sport, game, competition . . . whatever . . . everyone who participates gets a trophy. I never liked that practice!
NOT EVERYONE CAN BE A WINNER!!
You know what else he instilled in me? Drive and determination! And I learned that even defeat wasn’t deadly, but I’d damn sure better work harder the next time around . . . if I got a next time around.
I hope they don’t hand out trophies to everyone on the team . . . no matter what . . . when you’re growing up . . . if they do, I hope you realize the reality of it all . . . there will be a winning AND a losing team! They can tell you they’re not going to keep score . . . but every kid is counting the runs . . . or the goals . . . or the touchdowns . . . kids know who scored the most. Not everyone is a winner.
So what . . . you can’t PITCH a baseball . . . if you can catch one, learn to play left field! You’re not a really fast runner? Try out for keeper on the soccer team . . . they don’t have to run a lot, but they do have to be sharp and on their toes! Wait, you don’t know how to draw very well and you want to be an artist? Ever thrown clay on a wheel?
No matter what you do . . . sports, art, music, math . . . whatever . . . IF you love it, keep doing it until you try out and are cut from the team. But . . . if you’re cut from the team, accept it and move on . . . don’t go whining about it! At some point you will be rejected for one reason or another. You’ll think the world is coming to an end at the time, but when one door closes, you might find an open window somewhere else. You won’t notice that open window at first, but the breeze it lets in will eventually catch your attention.
And always remember . . . few people are naturals . . . sometimes you actually have to put some effort into something and practice!“Success is never final, and failure isn’t fatal. It’s the courage to continue that counts.” ~ Winston Churchill
What exactly does that mean? It means that even though you might win this year’s state soccer championship, you can’t forget to prepare for next year’s game. If you lose this year’s state championship, you won’t die because of it either . . . you’ll be around for next year’s game . . . buck up punk . . . practice . . . get better . . . then get your head back in the game!
And you know what John Wayne said about courage?
I’m not sure he REALLY said that . . . but the words are true . . . and it’s something he certainly might have said.
Sometimes I hope the pendulum swings the other way before you’re old enough to understand some things . . . one in particular is the notion that everyone who participates in a sport, game, competition . . . whatever . . . everyone who participates gets a trophy. I never liked that practice!
NOT EVERYONE CAN BE A WINNER!!
For the love of Pete, please remember that! In real life . . . once
you’re out of high school and college . . . out there on your own . . .
trying to make your mark on life . . . not everyone wins. You may
actually fail a class in college if you aren’t prepared for it. You may
get fired from a job if you fail to perform.
Do not live with the illusion that life is always going to be fair!
The School of Hard Knocks that life can be is an unforgiving
university . . . the tests aren’t always easy . . . victory can
sometimes only comes from hard work . . . blood, sweat, and tears . .
. along with some serious determination!
I learned this lesson VERY early in life . . . I had a tough dad
growing up . . . one that taught me lessons I never even knew I needed
to learn!!
Yep, losing was part of my childhood . . . what made it worse was that it happened a LOT before I turned 5!
Like most kids, our first board games were Candy Land and Chutes and Ladders (also known as Snakes and Ladders)
. . . our first opponents were Mom and Dad. Mom played the game in a
way that typically allowed us to win . . . she was kind and nurturing . .
. wanted us to have some basis to believe in a world full of goodness .
. . a safe world. Dad, on the other hand, was a no-holds-barred player .
. . who sometimes cheated . . . and rarely allowed us to win! As you
can imagine, there were usually tears!
I suppose in today’s world this might be viewed as some type of
mental abuse . . . after all, we’re not supposed to let today’s kids
know that losing is a possibility. And God forbid you make some kid cry!
I know this all too well dealing with college kids who run straight
to mommy and daddy every time something doesn’t go their way! I get
calls from angry parents . . . mad because I won’t coddle their precious
babies. Most times I just roll my eyes as I’m talking to them because I
know where the anger comes from. Usually I can calm the parents . . .
using soft words and hard facts . . . telling them I have kids of my own
who are navigating life as well . . . letting them know I understand
how hard it is to let go.
But when I was a kid, my father’s behavior wasn’t unusual . . . most
dads I knew were teaching this valuable lesson to their kids as well.
I remember playing catch with my dad . . . he threw the ball really
hard . . . hurting my hand when it hit! I’d drop my glove like a hot
potato, hit my knees and fight back tears because I knew if I
complained, the next one would be thrown even harder. His explanation
was that the other kids weren’t going to throw the ball easy . . . I
needed to learn to catch it no matter what. And guess what! I rarely
dropped a ball in a game . . . on the rare occasion when I played in the
field . . . usually shortstop because that’s where most balls were hit .
. . I could even snag a line drive without much effort . . . and no
fear! Catcher was my favorite position, and I played every game . . .
because I was fearless there . . . most girls were terrified to catch!
My dad helped make me fearless!
You know what else he instilled in me? Drive and determination! And I learned that even defeat wasn’t deadly, but I’d damn sure better work harder the next time around . . . if I got a next time around.
I hope they don’t hand out trophies to everyone on the team . . . no matter what . . . when you’re growing up . . . if they do, I hope you realize the reality of it all . . . there will be a winning AND a losing team! They can tell you they’re not going to keep score . . . but every kid is counting the runs . . . or the goals . . . or the touchdowns . . . kids know who scored the most. Not everyone is a winner.
So what . . . you can’t PITCH a baseball . . . if you can catch one, learn to play left field! You’re not a really fast runner? Try out for keeper on the soccer team . . . they don’t have to run a lot, but they do have to be sharp and on their toes! Wait, you don’t know how to draw very well and you want to be an artist? Ever thrown clay on a wheel?
No matter what you do . . . sports, art, music, math . . . whatever . . . IF you love it, keep doing it until you try out and are cut from the team. But . . . if you’re cut from the team, accept it and move on . . . don’t go whining about it! At some point you will be rejected for one reason or another. You’ll think the world is coming to an end at the time, but when one door closes, you might find an open window somewhere else. You won’t notice that open window at first, but the breeze it lets in will eventually catch your attention.
And always remember . . . few people are naturals . . . sometimes you actually have to put some effort into something and practice!“Success is never final, and failure isn’t fatal. It’s the courage to continue that counts.” ~ Winston Churchill
What exactly does that mean? It means that even though you might win this year’s state soccer championship, you can’t forget to prepare for next year’s game. If you lose this year’s state championship, you won’t die because of it either . . . you’ll be around for next year’s game . . . buck up punk . . . practice . . . get better . . . then get your head back in the game!
And you know what John Wayne said about courage?
I’m not sure he REALLY said that . . . but the words are true . . . and it’s something he certainly might have said.
“Crawling is acceptable. Falling is acceptable. Puking is acceptable. Blood is acceptable. Sweat is acceptable. Crying is acceptable. Pain is acceptable. Failure is even acceptable. Quitting, however, is NOT an option. When you feel like quitting, think about why you started.” ~ Unknown
Saturday, January 7, 2017
Memories: Harry Potter Style (I Wish)
7 January 2017
I hated losing my mom . . . HATED IT! You're going to hate it when you lose someone you love too, and there isn't anything anyone can do to protect you. Death is a part of life . . . it roams the world daily . . . hourly . . . every second we're alive . . . we just don't have any idea when Death will enter our personal space. It's not that I'm not okay with death . . . I just prefer the alternative . . . for as long as I can have it.
Enter Harry Potter . . .
There are so many life lessons you can learn from so many different sources . . . you've just got to keep an open mind about all of it. Dark magic aside . . . the Harry Potter series was chock full of things we should all take note of: what real friendship means, that we can find "family" in people who don't share our DNA, kindness goes a long way, standing up for the people you love is imperative . . . the list is long! One of my favorites is that we should always hold onto memories, and the story had a unique way to recall those memories . . . since, in real life, we can't remember EVERYTHING!!
Enter the Pensieve . . .
According to J.K. Rowling's "Pottermore" website, it's described as a wide and shallow dish made of metal or stone, often elaborately decorated or inlaid with precious stones . . . carrying powerful and complex enchantments. Pensieves are rare because only the most advanced wizards ever use them, and because the majority of wizardkind is afraid of doing so.
Of course, a downside to having one of these: when using it, you might dredge up memories you wanted to forget . . . painful ones . . . shameful ones . . . so yeah . . . there's that! Being a kid, without a lot of life experience, Harry misused it and learned a few things he probably didn't really need to know!
Enter blogging . . .
I've really enjoyed getting this process started . . . seems the more I write, the more I remember . . . and sort of like a pensieve gone wrong, sometimes painful things come up. But really, that's okay because I don't "see" them in movie form really . . . just moving pictures. Occasionally they'll hit me wrong, but for the most part it's not that bad. And when it is, I go stack rocks or something!
Oh wait . . . my point!!! Memories of my mom . . . thankfully I have a million of those . . . and pictures . . . I have pictures!! Keep the good memories alive kid . . . you'll need them one day!
I hated losing my mom . . . HATED IT! You're going to hate it when you lose someone you love too, and there isn't anything anyone can do to protect you. Death is a part of life . . . it roams the world daily . . . hourly . . . every second we're alive . . . we just don't have any idea when Death will enter our personal space. It's not that I'm not okay with death . . . I just prefer the alternative . . . for as long as I can have it.
Enter Harry Potter . . .
There are so many life lessons you can learn from so many different sources . . . you've just got to keep an open mind about all of it. Dark magic aside . . . the Harry Potter series was chock full of things we should all take note of: what real friendship means, that we can find "family" in people who don't share our DNA, kindness goes a long way, standing up for the people you love is imperative . . . the list is long! One of my favorites is that we should always hold onto memories, and the story had a unique way to recall those memories . . . since, in real life, we can't remember EVERYTHING!!
Enter the Pensieve . . .
. . . if only it were real!
According to J.K. Rowling's "Pottermore" website, it's described as a wide and shallow dish made of metal or stone, often elaborately decorated or inlaid with precious stones . . . carrying powerful and complex enchantments. Pensieves are rare because only the most advanced wizards ever use them, and because the majority of wizardkind is afraid of doing so.
Of course, a downside to having one of these: when using it, you might dredge up memories you wanted to forget . . . painful ones . . . shameful ones . . . so yeah . . . there's that! Being a kid, without a lot of life experience, Harry misused it and learned a few things he probably didn't really need to know!
Enter blogging . . .
I've really enjoyed getting this process started . . . seems the more I write, the more I remember . . . and sort of like a pensieve gone wrong, sometimes painful things come up. But really, that's okay because I don't "see" them in movie form really . . . just moving pictures. Occasionally they'll hit me wrong, but for the most part it's not that bad. And when it is, I go stack rocks or something!
Oh wait . . . my point!!! Memories of my mom . . . thankfully I have a million of those . . . and pictures . . . I have pictures!! Keep the good memories alive kid . . . you'll need them one day!
"When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure." ~ Unknown
Friday, January 6, 2017
Rock Stacking
6 January 2017
Stacking things is, I think, innate. From the time we're old enough to grasp things in our hands, we start trying to stack those things up! Toy companies make millions . . . probably billions . . . of dollars selling parents toys that are meant to be stacked. Google it, and you're likely to get a result that looks like this:
Kids don't realize the educational value . . . the fine motor skills they're building as nervous parents watch to make sure their children are developing "on schedule" . . . kids just think it's fun! Naturally these stacking games help kids work on not only their fine motor skills, but balance, language development, visual and spatial perception, gross motor control, crossing midline among other things! Some of these kids grow into architects, musicians, project control managers . . . you name it . . . the possibilities are endless!
What are you talking about Yaya . . . the title here is "Rock Stacking?!?!?"
Sorry, off track again . . .
Well, that love of stacking things never goes away . . . at least it didn't for me. I was fascinated with Native Americans at an early age, and they actually used rock stacking for a number of reasons (actually, many cultures from the beginning of time have used rock stacking for one reason or another). Rock stack were used for things like trail guides, sacrificial altars, religious symbols, water markers, burial sites, and directional guides. Technically they're called "Cairns."
It even carried into my adult years. I'd stack rocks everywhere I went . . . hiking, at the beach, at roadside picnic areas . . . mostly because I found it sort of therapeutic when I was feeling out of sorts. I taught the girls in my Girl Scout troop how to mark trails so they could find their way back or give instruction to another troop that might want to follow our trail. I even introduced The Captain to the practice when he took me to Buttermilk Falls in New York.
Here are a couple of our creations:
Google it, and you'll now find it's a highly controversial practice . . . many people claiming that rock stacking is ruining the environment . . . referring to it as "Natural Graffitti!" Maybe it is . . . maybe it isn't . . . but I can see some of their points when people move huge amounts of rocks to other places. Thing is, I just don't really believe man can completely destroy nature. Oh, we might change the course of a river or strip a mountain in such a way that the mountain erodes, but nature itself does damage far beyond what man can do . . . we just need to be more thoughtful about it.
Of course, I suppose, by the time you're an adult, you'll be reading this and shaking your head in disbelief . . . disbelief that your own grandmother practiced this. I mean, I shook my head in disbelief when I found out MY grandmother actually stole rocks from the mall to landscape her yard . . . not that I was worried about environmental impact . . . but that she was a thief!!! I think if you use rocks close to where you're stacking, and Mother Nature could eventually knock them back where they came from, you're okay.
Regardless, I don't do some of the more elaborate stacking . . . though I find it rather amazing! They even have a Rock Stacking World Championship . . . it's held at the Llano Earth ArtFest in Llano, Texas!! Those creations are spectacular!!!
My point: I don't know . . . find something creative you love . . . find something that calms you . . . go to that Rock Stacking World Championship . . . chastise your Yaya for ruining the environment . . . just don't ever, ever lose your sense of wonder!!
Stacking things is, I think, innate. From the time we're old enough to grasp things in our hands, we start trying to stack those things up! Toy companies make millions . . . probably billions . . . of dollars selling parents toys that are meant to be stacked. Google it, and you're likely to get a result that looks like this:
Kids don't realize the educational value . . . the fine motor skills they're building as nervous parents watch to make sure their children are developing "on schedule" . . . kids just think it's fun! Naturally these stacking games help kids work on not only their fine motor skills, but balance, language development, visual and spatial perception, gross motor control, crossing midline among other things! Some of these kids grow into architects, musicians, project control managers . . . you name it . . . the possibilities are endless!
What are you talking about Yaya . . . the title here is "Rock Stacking?!?!?"
Sorry, off track again . . .
Well, that love of stacking things never goes away . . . at least it didn't for me. I was fascinated with Native Americans at an early age, and they actually used rock stacking for a number of reasons (actually, many cultures from the beginning of time have used rock stacking for one reason or another). Rock stack were used for things like trail guides, sacrificial altars, religious symbols, water markers, burial sites, and directional guides. Technically they're called "Cairns."
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhrVsT8oosysir3RvNoqm7mUF8Y9JeVcs0zwF73nWskpI8Yo9SCKCz71OOpFMB1QwI5ZCEZJLTGQbprYcPtUvHd9eJc5BfA8upD9oc0p38huKsw6y4uitOrpXbgYRXymehZzCu6eYzKeoFq/s640/rock2.jpg)
Here are a couple of our creations:
Of course, I suppose, by the time you're an adult, you'll be reading this and shaking your head in disbelief . . . disbelief that your own grandmother practiced this. I mean, I shook my head in disbelief when I found out MY grandmother actually stole rocks from the mall to landscape her yard . . . not that I was worried about environmental impact . . . but that she was a thief!!! I think if you use rocks close to where you're stacking, and Mother Nature could eventually knock them back where they came from, you're okay.
Regardless, I don't do some of the more elaborate stacking . . . though I find it rather amazing! They even have a Rock Stacking World Championship . . . it's held at the Llano Earth ArtFest in Llano, Texas!! Those creations are spectacular!!!
My point: I don't know . . . find something creative you love . . . find something that calms you . . . go to that Rock Stacking World Championship . . . chastise your Yaya for ruining the environment . . . just don't ever, ever lose your sense of wonder!!
Thursday, January 5, 2017
Here I Go Again . . . John Muir
5 January 2017
Tommy, I hope your curiosity works overtime . . . if I have anything to do with it, I'll make sure you remain as curious as possible!! It's either that, or I'm going to start boring . . . or worse . . . embarrassing you! Sometimes you've just gotta "know" something and everything you encounter!
For instance: John Muir. I've heard about him all my life, but only in reference to yesterday's quote along with places he helped "found" like Yosemite and Sequoia National Parks and places named after him such as Muir Woods National Monument, Mount Muir, Muir Glacier, Muir Pass . . . even knew there John Muir trails in Tennessee!!
What I didn't know was that he was the founder of the Sierra Club AND he has a minor planet named after him: 128253 Johnmuir!!!
Lucky for him, Teddy Roosevelt, one of our presidents and a peer of Muir, was just as passionate about preserving areas for public use. In 1903 Roosevelt accompanied Muir on a trip into Yosemite so Muir could prove how mismanagement of the area was ruining the splendor . . . Roosevelt asked Muir to show him "the real Yosemite," so they took off . . . pretty much the two of them . . . camped near Glacier Point . . . a night Roosevelt would never forget.
He lived in the Sierra mountains for most of his life . . . sometimes among Native Americans. He often used the term "home" as a metaphor for both nature and his general attitude toward the natural world itself . . . calling the Sierra Nevada "God's mountain mansion." He didn't return to civilization until he was almost 40 . . . finally marrying and having a family . . . but never really settling. His wife was understanding, and from time to time would send him back to the mountains . . . often with his children in tow. He once told a visitor about his ranch: "This is a good place to be housed in during stormy weather, to write in, to raise children in, but it is not my home. Up there (pointing toward the mountains) is my home."
Tommy, I hope your curiosity works overtime . . . if I have anything to do with it, I'll make sure you remain as curious as possible!! It's either that, or I'm going to start boring . . . or worse . . . embarrassing you! Sometimes you've just gotta "know" something and everything you encounter!
For instance: John Muir. I've heard about him all my life, but only in reference to yesterday's quote along with places he helped "found" like Yosemite and Sequoia National Parks and places named after him such as Muir Woods National Monument, Mount Muir, Muir Glacier, Muir Pass . . . even knew there John Muir trails in Tennessee!!
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Lucky for him, Teddy Roosevelt, one of our presidents and a peer of Muir, was just as passionate about preserving areas for public use. In 1903 Roosevelt accompanied Muir on a trip into Yosemite so Muir could prove how mismanagement of the area was ruining the splendor . . . Roosevelt asked Muir to show him "the real Yosemite," so they took off . . . pretty much the two of them . . . camped near Glacier Point . . . a night Roosevelt would never forget.
He lived in the Sierra mountains for most of his life . . . sometimes among Native Americans. He often used the term "home" as a metaphor for both nature and his general attitude toward the natural world itself . . . calling the Sierra Nevada "God's mountain mansion." He didn't return to civilization until he was almost 40 . . . finally marrying and having a family . . . but never really settling. His wife was understanding, and from time to time would send him back to the mountains . . . often with his children in tow. He once told a visitor about his ranch: "This is a good place to be housed in during stormy weather, to write in, to raise children in, but it is not my home. Up there (pointing toward the mountains) is my home."
"The snow is melting into music." ~ John Muir
Incidentally, I have been through Muir Woods . . . home of the gigantic redwood trees! Put it on your Bucket List!! All I can say is that it will take your breath away!
Wednesday, January 4, 2017
Dirt Roads
4 January 2017
You know, while we were in South Georgia for the wedding, we did something that brought a lot of things back to mind . . . we drove down dirt roads.
Believe it or not, pavement is a relatively new invention! I know . . . right?!?! It's not something you really think about since we take our roads and highways for granted.
Navigable roads were actually first built in ancient Mesopotamia, way back in about 4000 BC (or so they surmise). . . there were some real forward thinkers in that society. Their choice of material: stone and handmade bricks. Nah, they had no cars, but I imagine that after getting your chariot stuck in mud a time or two, you might start thinking "There's got to be a better way!"
Would you believe archaeologists uncovered roads made from timber in Glastonbury . . . in England? Does that place sound familiar? Camelot ring a bell? Yep, the legend of King Arthur hails from Glastonbury!
It wouldn't be until the 1700's that more modern roads would be built: layers of large stones, broken stones, and a layer of finer gravel. Still . . . no cars though! Tar roads wouldn't be built until the early 1800's. And in 1824 the first "modern" road was built and paved: The Avenue des Champ-Elysees located in Paris. France liked to get ahead of the curve!
By the late 1800's America started paving, and our first paved road was none other than Pennsylvania Avenue. Recognize that road?
But paving was expensive!! Many of our cities chose to pave their roads with brick, and if you visit places like Savannah, Charleston, or Georgetown, you'll see them. I love brick roads; they're very charming . . . take you back to another time and place if you close your eyes. Okay, I'll admit brick roads are very uneven and can be rather noisy, but I like them anyway. I've seen a resurgence in the building of brick roads, and I looked it up . . . cities are turning back to brick for paving for a variety of reasons: flood control, aesthetics, speed control. Even our campus has some brick inlay at some of their intersections . . . makes it a lot prettier!
However we're not talking paved roads . . . we're talking dirt!
I've driven down a LOT of dirt roads in my life . . . some of my best memories come from dirt roads! My oldest memory is of going to see my grandparents when they lived in South Carolina . . . the car kicked up a lot of dirt on dry, dusty days. Most of Grammy's family lived in Georgia . . . on old dirt roads! We even drove down dirt roads in Europe . . . to camp, to explore!
When we got back to Georgia from Spain, Grandmother Cochran and Papa lived in a trailer on a dirt road . . . he farmed while she ran the trailer park for the guys who worked out at Plant Hatch (that's the nuclear plant outside of Lyons). Well, they weren't EXACTLY dirt . . . more red clay . . . but they certainly weren't paved. MY favorite days . . . but no doubt the bane of all those who drove . . . were the rainy days . . . that heavy soaking rain that stopped the world sometimes. After the rain was when the "magic" happened: the air smelled fresh, mud puppies appeared in the ditches, people stayed home if they didn't "need" to go somewhere, snapping turtles emerged, and those dirt roads turned slick and muddy!! All of us kids would run out and spend the day sliding down those roads . . . we didn't need sleds or plastic trays . . . we slid on our bellies and butts and backs!!! Then we'd head down to the ditches off Highway 1 to capture mud puppies, generally terrorizing those poor creatures who no doubt hated landing in the hands of 12 year olds, scoop up tadpoles to put in jars so we could watch them transform into frogs, try to get a snapping turtle to crack a stick in half with its powerful jaws!
I spent a couple of weeks out of the summers, after I turned 15, at Aunt Gwenera and Uncle James' farm, and they lived on a dirt road. We'd pick tobacco from "can't to can't" and then spend the evenings playing basketball, catching fireflies, playing tag, making ice cream while breathing in that Georgia dirt. I loved watching farm trucks go by at breakneck speeds just to watch the dust fly! Nothing felt better on bare feet (well except for a few days after the rain, when the dirt hardened to a concrete like state and the rocks felt jagged).
In my adult years I found dirt roads out west that led to amazing sights: Devils Tower and Wind River Canyon in Wyoming, Canyon de Chelley in Arizona, dozens of old missions in Montana, ghost towns in Colorado, Deadwood in South Dakota (a real "wild west" town).
Dirt roads . . . to me . . . were freedom!
I hope you know dirt roads one day!
John Muir, a naturalist, author, glaciologist, and an early advocate for the preservation of our natural lands, was known as the "Father of National Parks" . . . he had this to say:
You know, while we were in South Georgia for the wedding, we did something that brought a lot of things back to mind . . . we drove down dirt roads.
Believe it or not, pavement is a relatively new invention! I know . . . right?!?! It's not something you really think about since we take our roads and highways for granted.
Navigable roads were actually first built in ancient Mesopotamia, way back in about 4000 BC (or so they surmise). . . there were some real forward thinkers in that society. Their choice of material: stone and handmade bricks. Nah, they had no cars, but I imagine that after getting your chariot stuck in mud a time or two, you might start thinking "There's got to be a better way!"
Would you believe archaeologists uncovered roads made from timber in Glastonbury . . . in England? Does that place sound familiar? Camelot ring a bell? Yep, the legend of King Arthur hails from Glastonbury!
It wouldn't be until the 1700's that more modern roads would be built: layers of large stones, broken stones, and a layer of finer gravel. Still . . . no cars though! Tar roads wouldn't be built until the early 1800's. And in 1824 the first "modern" road was built and paved: The Avenue des Champ-Elysees located in Paris. France liked to get ahead of the curve!
By the late 1800's America started paving, and our first paved road was none other than Pennsylvania Avenue. Recognize that road?
But paving was expensive!! Many of our cities chose to pave their roads with brick, and if you visit places like Savannah, Charleston, or Georgetown, you'll see them. I love brick roads; they're very charming . . . take you back to another time and place if you close your eyes. Okay, I'll admit brick roads are very uneven and can be rather noisy, but I like them anyway. I've seen a resurgence in the building of brick roads, and I looked it up . . . cities are turning back to brick for paving for a variety of reasons: flood control, aesthetics, speed control. Even our campus has some brick inlay at some of their intersections . . . makes it a lot prettier!
However we're not talking paved roads . . . we're talking dirt!
I've driven down a LOT of dirt roads in my life . . . some of my best memories come from dirt roads! My oldest memory is of going to see my grandparents when they lived in South Carolina . . . the car kicked up a lot of dirt on dry, dusty days. Most of Grammy's family lived in Georgia . . . on old dirt roads! We even drove down dirt roads in Europe . . . to camp, to explore!
When we got back to Georgia from Spain, Grandmother Cochran and Papa lived in a trailer on a dirt road . . . he farmed while she ran the trailer park for the guys who worked out at Plant Hatch (that's the nuclear plant outside of Lyons). Well, they weren't EXACTLY dirt . . . more red clay . . . but they certainly weren't paved. MY favorite days . . . but no doubt the bane of all those who drove . . . were the rainy days . . . that heavy soaking rain that stopped the world sometimes. After the rain was when the "magic" happened: the air smelled fresh, mud puppies appeared in the ditches, people stayed home if they didn't "need" to go somewhere, snapping turtles emerged, and those dirt roads turned slick and muddy!! All of us kids would run out and spend the day sliding down those roads . . . we didn't need sleds or plastic trays . . . we slid on our bellies and butts and backs!!! Then we'd head down to the ditches off Highway 1 to capture mud puppies, generally terrorizing those poor creatures who no doubt hated landing in the hands of 12 year olds, scoop up tadpoles to put in jars so we could watch them transform into frogs, try to get a snapping turtle to crack a stick in half with its powerful jaws!
I spent a couple of weeks out of the summers, after I turned 15, at Aunt Gwenera and Uncle James' farm, and they lived on a dirt road. We'd pick tobacco from "can't to can't" and then spend the evenings playing basketball, catching fireflies, playing tag, making ice cream while breathing in that Georgia dirt. I loved watching farm trucks go by at breakneck speeds just to watch the dust fly! Nothing felt better on bare feet (well except for a few days after the rain, when the dirt hardened to a concrete like state and the rocks felt jagged).
In my adult years I found dirt roads out west that led to amazing sights: Devils Tower and Wind River Canyon in Wyoming, Canyon de Chelley in Arizona, dozens of old missions in Montana, ghost towns in Colorado, Deadwood in South Dakota (a real "wild west" town).
Dirt roads . . . to me . . . were freedom!
I hope you know dirt roads one day!
John Muir, a naturalist, author, glaciologist, and an early advocate for the preservation of our natural lands, was known as the "Father of National Parks" . . . he had this to say:
"Of all the paths you take in life, make sure some of them are dirt."
Tuesday, January 3, 2017
Back to Work
3 January 2017
After taking nearly the entire month of December off so I could stay home with you, I'm back at work! Thankfully you didn't have to go straight into a daycare . . . some friends from church are keeping you while your mom's working.
Michelle and Branden have a little one born about the same time you were . . . Zachary! I know they're capable parents, but I can't help but worry about you all day long. Lucky for me, I'll be picking you up every day to take you to your mom . . . since I can skip out of here at 4:30!!
I know your mom would much rather stay home with you, but today's reality is that both parents usually have to work to make ends meet.
It's crazy busy at the office today . . . the kids are trickling back in, and they ALL seem to need to talk to me.
After taking nearly the entire month of December off so I could stay home with you, I'm back at work! Thankfully you didn't have to go straight into a daycare . . . some friends from church are keeping you while your mom's working.
Michelle and Branden have a little one born about the same time you were . . . Zachary! I know they're capable parents, but I can't help but worry about you all day long. Lucky for me, I'll be picking you up every day to take you to your mom . . . since I can skip out of here at 4:30!!
I know your mom would much rather stay home with you, but today's reality is that both parents usually have to work to make ends meet.
It's crazy busy at the office today . . . the kids are trickling back in, and they ALL seem to need to talk to me.
Monday, January 2, 2017
Pirate Obsession? Maybe . . .
2 January 2017
I really don't know where my obsession with pirates began, but I know I was really young when it started. It may have been the stories my dad told . . . of the sea . . . of his travels. I knew he was in the Navy, but maybe in my head I thought he was really a pirate. I wanted to be anything my dad was.
Found this in a old box of photos; this would have been in Spain . . . probably 1975? Costumes back then were homemade . . . usually from whatever you could find lying around the house. My mom was quite a seamstress, so she managed to put together something a little extra special for us. The witch is obviously your Auntie M . . . my dad made the hat she's wearing . . . it's something else, isn't it?!?
I really don't know where my obsession with pirates began, but I know I was really young when it started. It may have been the stories my dad told . . . of the sea . . . of his travels. I knew he was in the Navy, but maybe in my head I thought he was really a pirate. I wanted to be anything my dad was.
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Sunday, January 1, 2017
Weddings, Family, and Memorials
1 January 2017
Your cousin Emma was married last night, and it was such a beautiful celebration of new beginning. I don't think you were overly thrilled about it, but then weddings aren't really for babies now, are they?
Today the family gathered at Greg and Penny's for a more sober celebration of Grammy's life. We spent the morning making her favorite cheese biscuits . . . sharing memories . . . laughing and crying. Oh, she would have loved you . . . babies were her favorite I think.
Funny, we talked about babies a lot, and she often said since she'd "raised" so many (her brother and sisters), she wasn't ever really sure she wanted her own. But God has a way of working things out in His own way . . . so at 25, she became a mom . . . I came along. 14 months later your Auntie M arrived. We became a family.
Something you need to know about families: blood is always thicker than water! The thing about our family, however, seems to have glue in the blood . . . even though we might all live far away from one another, there isn't anything that could tear us apart. These people . . . our "tribe" . . . this family into which you were born loved you before you arrived . . . fiercely! Don't you ever forget where you came from!!
"Our family is a circle of strength and love . . . with every birth and union it grows . . . everything . . . when faced together . . . makes the circle stronger" ~ Unknown
Your cousin Emma was married last night, and it was such a beautiful celebration of new beginning. I don't think you were overly thrilled about it, but then weddings aren't really for babies now, are they?
Today the family gathered at Greg and Penny's for a more sober celebration of Grammy's life. We spent the morning making her favorite cheese biscuits . . . sharing memories . . . laughing and crying. Oh, she would have loved you . . . babies were her favorite I think.
Funny, we talked about babies a lot, and she often said since she'd "raised" so many (her brother and sisters), she wasn't ever really sure she wanted her own. But God has a way of working things out in His own way . . . so at 25, she became a mom . . . I came along. 14 months later your Auntie M arrived. We became a family.
Something you need to know about families: blood is always thicker than water! The thing about our family, however, seems to have glue in the blood . . . even though we might all live far away from one another, there isn't anything that could tear us apart. These people . . . our "tribe" . . . this family into which you were born loved you before you arrived . . . fiercely! Don't you ever forget where you came from!!
"Our family is a circle of strength and love . . . with every birth and union it grows . . . everything . . . when faced together . . . makes the circle stronger" ~ Unknown
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